Showing posts with label Oliver. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Oliver. Show all posts
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
It's Just Nuts
One pistachio.
That's all it took to wreak complete and total havoc on Oliver's body last Thursday.
I was eating pistachios for an afternoon snack, and he asked if he could have them. I thought about it for a second, and told him we could try it.
It's at this point in telling the story that I've seen, several times, the slight raise of an eyebrow. So far everyone has thought better than to question my judgement out loud, but the sentiment is there. If anyone chose to actually say something to me I'd just say, "Go ahead, judge away. Until you've lived a day with my child, the credibility of your opinion on this subject is nil. You try telling the boy with five healthy, typical brothers, that this thing he's interested in trying is just one more thing on the mile-long list of stuff he can't touch with a ten foot pole. You look at those brown eyes and tell him that it's not worth trying, just in case. You aren't there at birthday parties when he's eating a sandwich and lollipop instead of pizza, cake, and ice cream, and you weren't the one who had to finally explain to him that he's not going to be able to eat like his brothers just because he reaches a certain age, which is what he had thought all along, that he just wasn't old enough yet. You have no idea."
So yes, he's severely allergic to peanuts, and that may seem to rule out pistachios as well. Except that pistachios are actually a tree nut, more closely related to pecans and almonds, which we've found (by trial and error) that Oliver can tolerate. So in my mind, it was worth a try.
He took one pistachio, ate it, looked at me and said, "I don't think I should have eaten that." He knew that quickly. His lips began to swell right before my eyes and he told me his throat felt hot and it was hard to swallow. I raced for the benedryl and watched him drink two teaspoons of the liquid down as though he were trying to swallow a horse pill. By the time we got to the emergency room he was wheezing, and his body was unrecognizable from his neck down to his knees, where the hives raged so out of control that they were blending together into one enormous, hideous patch of disfigured skin. His cheeks were bright red, his eyes full of fear, and the first nurse to see him yelled frantically for a pulse ox machine. An epi-shot to his stomach and an IV pump of more meds than I care to recall later, and the symptoms began to subside. He lay on the gurney, in a tiny hospital gown that I hope to never again see one of my children wearing, and drifted off to sleep. I was left to my thoughts as he recovered.
I recalled the exchange I had had with one of the doctors. She was trying to establish a timeline of events and said, "Okay, so he was eating the pistachios --" I cut her off, telling her, "He ate one pistachio." "One pistachio?" as she looked down at my ailing son. The absurdity of it seemed to ring with both of us, and at the same time, as his mother, the fragility of life hit me. One silly pistachio. Without prompt and skillful medical care, it had the potential to take the life of my son.
Most mornings I can't predict where the course of the day will take me. Some days I'm more surprised than others.
That's all it took to wreak complete and total havoc on Oliver's body last Thursday.
I was eating pistachios for an afternoon snack, and he asked if he could have them. I thought about it for a second, and told him we could try it.
It's at this point in telling the story that I've seen, several times, the slight raise of an eyebrow. So far everyone has thought better than to question my judgement out loud, but the sentiment is there. If anyone chose to actually say something to me I'd just say, "Go ahead, judge away. Until you've lived a day with my child, the credibility of your opinion on this subject is nil. You try telling the boy with five healthy, typical brothers, that this thing he's interested in trying is just one more thing on the mile-long list of stuff he can't touch with a ten foot pole. You look at those brown eyes and tell him that it's not worth trying, just in case. You aren't there at birthday parties when he's eating a sandwich and lollipop instead of pizza, cake, and ice cream, and you weren't the one who had to finally explain to him that he's not going to be able to eat like his brothers just because he reaches a certain age, which is what he had thought all along, that he just wasn't old enough yet. You have no idea."
So yes, he's severely allergic to peanuts, and that may seem to rule out pistachios as well. Except that pistachios are actually a tree nut, more closely related to pecans and almonds, which we've found (by trial and error) that Oliver can tolerate. So in my mind, it was worth a try.
He took one pistachio, ate it, looked at me and said, "I don't think I should have eaten that." He knew that quickly. His lips began to swell right before my eyes and he told me his throat felt hot and it was hard to swallow. I raced for the benedryl and watched him drink two teaspoons of the liquid down as though he were trying to swallow a horse pill. By the time we got to the emergency room he was wheezing, and his body was unrecognizable from his neck down to his knees, where the hives raged so out of control that they were blending together into one enormous, hideous patch of disfigured skin. His cheeks were bright red, his eyes full of fear, and the first nurse to see him yelled frantically for a pulse ox machine. An epi-shot to his stomach and an IV pump of more meds than I care to recall later, and the symptoms began to subside. He lay on the gurney, in a tiny hospital gown that I hope to never again see one of my children wearing, and drifted off to sleep. I was left to my thoughts as he recovered.
I recalled the exchange I had had with one of the doctors. She was trying to establish a timeline of events and said, "Okay, so he was eating the pistachios --" I cut her off, telling her, "He ate one pistachio." "One pistachio?" as she looked down at my ailing son. The absurdity of it seemed to ring with both of us, and at the same time, as his mother, the fragility of life hit me. One silly pistachio. Without prompt and skillful medical care, it had the potential to take the life of my son.
Most mornings I can't predict where the course of the day will take me. Some days I'm more surprised than others.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
He Just Might Be On To Something
Isaac (3 1/2 yrs.) has come a long way with his speech. He's putting together 3-4 word sentences like a pro, and is finally using his brothers' names regularly,. Of course, we weren't aware of it at the time, but it turns out it was kind of a cruel thing to do to give him a little brother named Sebastian. He's never even attempted to say that one. He's called him "Baby" all along, and I don't see him trying anything different any time soon. Since much of my speech during the day is directed toward Isaac, I too have taken to calling Sebastian "Baby", as have most of the other people in the house. We've commented lately on the dilemma we'll have when we have a real baby in the house again.
Oliver came up with a solution today. Out of the blue, he said, "Why don't we just call the new baby "Sebastian", and keep calling him "Baby"?"
Makes sense to me. It's a great name. And if you aren't using something, it's the responsible thing to do to recycle it, right?
Oliver came up with a solution today. Out of the blue, he said, "Why don't we just call the new baby "Sebastian", and keep calling him "Baby"?"
Makes sense to me. It's a great name. And if you aren't using something, it's the responsible thing to do to recycle it, right?
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
In case anyone was wondering...
...Oliver has not outgrown his milk allergy.
An extremely helpful big brother was setting the table tonight, and decided to help even more by putting parmesan cheese on Oliver's spaghetti for him. We were half-way through dinner when we noticed his lips swelling. Two teaspoons of benadryl later...he's sleeping it off on the couch while we keep an eye on his hives.
Every once in a while I think, "He hasn't had a reaction in a long time, I wonder if he's outgrown it..."
He hasn't.
An extremely helpful big brother was setting the table tonight, and decided to help even more by putting parmesan cheese on Oliver's spaghetti for him. We were half-way through dinner when we noticed his lips swelling. Two teaspoons of benadryl later...he's sleeping it off on the couch while we keep an eye on his hives.
Every once in a while I think, "He hasn't had a reaction in a long time, I wonder if he's outgrown it..."
He hasn't.
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